The Mistress:
Mistress Fhionna
Glasgow, Scotland
Contact: 07763 127418
Website
The Interview:
What is your ethos/philosophy?
I have been called a ‘caring sadist’ and I actually love that description. I guess that I’m into pain giving as a cathartic experience and I tend to play at the harder end of fetish but I do enjoy beginners too (the nerves, the shaking, then the relaxing and the pleasure. I just love what I do and love to give pleasure by tapping into what a submissive really wants to explore, rather than just play acting. I am completely into the power exchange and believe the mind is a sexual organ (without meaning to be corny!). I firmly believe that there can be no more fulfilling experience (for them or me) than for them to submit in a ‘real’ way. I am a giver of pain and know that it can have cathartic qualities but I also ‘take care’ of my playmates and subs/slaves. Their well being is important. When and if I do a session it must be based on trust, pleasure and consent (of course).
It’s all about trust and the willingness to push one’s boundaries. I don’t like being presented with ‘shopping lists’ as in my opinion this stunts any possible self development and leaves a sub/slave in the same groove, a strictly ‘what they like and know groove’. It is my quest, I suppose, to get to the core of the submissives fantasies and to give them the experience of a life time while gaining pleasure from their submission to me. I want to take them on a journey, whether it be short or long, and so it’s very important to me they feel they can express themselves freely and if I think I am the right ‘session partner’ for them and I can promote any happiness then that’s what I aim to do.
Which areas of BDSM do you specialise in & do you most enjoy?
I have to say that first and foremost I’m a CP specialist, but not one of the those that they say they can do it and can’t. I am highly accurate in aim and (even though I’m about to blow my own trumpet in the most shameful way) I am second to none, anywhere, in my skill in this area. I love everything about it from a hand spanking right up to juditial canings and full 6ft bull whippings.
I also have a passion for nipple play/torture, as this is such an underestimated area of passion/pleasure/pain. I also really enjoy anal play, bondage, predicament bondage, suspension, hoods and gags and CBT (cock and ball torture not cognitive behavioural therapy, although I would probably enjoy that too).
How long have you been a professional Domme & how and when did you first get involved in BDSM?
I first got into BDSM properly when I was 18, which was 25 years ago now (shock horror). I went to London with my boyfriend at that time and went to a fetish club. I believe it was actually Torture Garden but I’m not entirely sure due to an old and well used brain!.
I have been a lifestyle Domme for 23 years and a pro Domme for about 10 years. My subs/slaves travel from across the world to see me. I am very lucky to have such devotees.
What is Your involvement within the fetish scene?
I have been a lifestyle Dom for about 23 years and a pro Dom for around 10 years. I am active in the fetish scene and have been owning/running a fetish club called Violate for several years now. It is coming up to it’s 12th birthday and is the longest running fetish club in Scotland. Club nights are on the first Saturday of every month.
The Review:
Mistress Fhionna has asked me to attend Violate as a guest so that we can meet up in person and we have a chat there.
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